When I became a dad, I quickly realized that my life was no longer my own

Sean Hood

Hood Family | Midland NC

My upbringing was shaped by the presence of a strong father and a caring yet tough mother. For my sisters and me, Dad chose to be a father figure who was feared and respected first. He carried an air of authority in our home, ensuring discipline and structure, but at the end of the day, his love for us was undeniable. He would do anything to help us achieve our dreams. He always was the first person our extended family called when they faced challenges, despite the occasional harsh response. Through him, I learned the importance of respect in the home. But I also learned something else—where I needed to bring more empathy and understanding into my own parenting journey.

When our first little girl was born, I quickly realized that my life was no longer my own. The days of thinking only of myself or doing what I wanted whenever I pleased were over. Parenting isn’t about taking the easy route; in fact, it’s quite the opposite. I discovered that being a father wasn’t just about providing for my family; it was about being present. It was about slowing down, creating memories, and forming connections that would last a lifetime.

I had to learn to stop rushing through life, moving from one task to another. Instead, I learned to pause, take a breath, and cherish playtime after work. What seemed like small moments became the foundation of my relationship with my daughter. Those moments meant everything to her, and they became everything to me too.

Dad Academy was so helpful in helping me reflect on my values and understand the kind of father I want to be. We all have morals and principles that guide us, but they only become useful in parenting when we take the time to lay them out and truly understand what drives us as men. Fatherhood requires a plan, a vision for our families that sets our children up for success—not just in life but as people.

Most importantly, Dad Academy reinforced one of the greatest truths: the fruit of putting Jesus Christ first in our home. Without time spent in prayer and seeking guidance from the Lord, we’re simply going through the motions, trying to survive. Instead, we’re thriving!

As a fairly new father, connecting with other dads through Dad Academy was a game-changer for me. Hearing their experiences, sharing struggles, and learning from men who had walked this path before me gave me the tools I needed to become the best father I could be. I know the impact of being an intentional, present, and faith-driven dad will ripple through my children’s lives for years to come, and for that, I am forever grateful.