When I was three, my stepfather, entered my life...

Fritz Maskrey

Maskrey family | Corona CA

When my parents divorced when I was three, my stepfather, “Pops," entered my life—a true blessing and miracle. My childhood was filled with simple joys and invaluable lessons. He didn’t just teach me values through words; he lived them. He embodied the principles he wanted to impart, showing me what it meant to be a man of integrity, love, and selflessness. The most selfless thing he ever did was marry my mother without knowing my sister and me, yet he embraced us as his own without hesitation. He never had biological children of his own, but that never mattered—he was a true hero to us. For his love and acceptance, I will always be grateful.

Looking back, I see how much of the man I am today is because of his influence. I’ve needed to lean on that experience as I navigate fatherhood and the realities of a blended family. As a father, stepfather, and husband, balancing professional growth while remaining present for my family has been one of my greatest challenges. The complexities of a blended family, especially one striving to honor God, add another layer to the journey. I quickly learned that there’s a stark difference between natural child development and the emotional impact of being split between two homes. Then, add the digital era, where instant gratification often replaces the ability to work through emotions like sadness, anxiety, and pressure. Our culture glamorizes success but often ignores the struggle that comes with it. Recognizing and supporting my children’s emotional needs as they evolve into unique individuals has been an incredible learning experience. This journey pushes me to keep adapting, growing, and striving to be the best father I can be.

Participating in Dad Academy has been a transformative experience in my journey as a father.

Through Dad Academy, I’ve discovered the power of active listening—putting aside distractions to genuinely connect with my kids and my fellow fathers. This has strengthened my relationships and deepened my appreciation for shared experiences. I’ve also learned the importance of vulnerability. By encouraging my kids and other dads to express their emotions and seek help when needed, we’ve built an environment of trust and support. Tackling tough conversations together has reinforced a culture that values both personal well-being and strong parenting.

Fathers are essential in today’s world, and we need each other now more than ever. I am committed to being present, to learning, and to supporting other dads as we navigate this journey together. Fatherhood isn’t just a role—it’s a calling, and I want to make the most of it.